Wednesday, April 19, 2017

Consider a Babysitter in Key West: Quiet Afternoon? Date Night?

If you are like most families, you think, Key West! Family Vacation! FUN! SUN! BEACH! SWIM!

You might be thinking, its an entire week of not rushing to soccer practice, dance lessons, or trying to get the kids out of bed to get to school on time.

Perhaps you are considering not cooking as often, allowing yourself some wiggle room with that health food kick you have been on;  maybe you are looking forward to letting your hair down; relaxing, chilling, visiting the spa, reading, and leaving it all behind for a week,  You are even a little excited that housekeeping will be coming to your room daily to change the sheets and clean the bathroom.. you are really thinking, I am OFF DUTY!

But, then, the reality sets in.  You have free time for that yoga class you love while the kids are at soccer, and although driving the kids around to activities isn't ideal; at least they HAVE activities. Suddenly you are wondering..when do they go back to school?  Almost immediately, you are the activity director, and mediator.  You are trying to find things that will be exciting and fun for the kids, and meanwhile, you are trying to watch everything from sugar intake, time on electronics, and, the kids are NOT getting along. (...wasn't I going to let my hair down? I thought family vacation was supposed to be fun?)
Suddenly, the kids don't have the structure they are used to; you are almost certain your kid(s) are the loudest at the hotel pool. Plus, you think, they are good swimmers, right? (....can I go to the restroom? Or should I take them out?...)  You brought along your book, but so far the only action it has seen is the back pocket of the plane and a few splashes from the pool.

This is why planning a date night and perhaps an afternoon for yourself is an essential part of family vacation.  Personally, I haven't been to a hotel yet, that is not filled with kids; I jump in and play along with them; one of my favorite family friendly hotels is Casa Marina this hotel doesn't just have a separate pool for the adults; but it also has Higgs Beach Park that is just a 5-minute walk away that is a great place for children of all ages.  Salute on the Beach  is also right in that area, and a family friendly restaurant.

Key West Childcare will babysit and take your children swimming and to the park; but we are also happy to take your children on a excursion such as a visit to the Butterfly Museum, Bayview Movie Series, a Trolley Ride, or a variety of other activities.  Our goal is for you to get some time to read that book your brought, perhaps attend Yoga on the Beach and enjoy a restaurant without a kids menu; such as Hot Tin Roof, Louies Backyard and/or some fabulous dessert at Better Than Sex.

You may have concerns; the kids are not getting along, perhaps you have an infant? You are traveling for a destination wedding and just don't see how this is going to work out.  Read the reviews, feel free to call me; I look forward to meeting your family.

Advance booking before you get to the island is encouraged.  Go to http://www.keywestchildcare.net/book-services/ to reserve your time! Make it a great vacation for the entire family!

Sunday, January 29, 2017

Destination Weddings - Key West

January was full of weddings for Key West Childcare.  I know you might be thinking that kids and weddings don't always go together; but that's exactly where my services come in.

Kids at weddings; and in wedding photos are amazing! They are so adorable, right?  But, what about after the ceremony when all the adults want to relax, and its much past the kiddos bedtime?   You might think that "Uncle John" or "Granny Mae" would be happy to take care of the kids after dark -- but, the reality is, this is Key West, its a wedding -- they both could be busy having fun!

Many times, the kids end up somewhere the night of the wedding; and it's often not with the same people they were with during the day.   Was the bag packed? Do they have food? What about pajamas? What house/hotel room is the pack and play? This gets even more confusing when more than one child  is involved.  Which one needs to be held all the time? Which one needs to eat every few hours? Who's going to change them.. after all, you would probably prefer to keep that dress clean.

Likely, things like "who has the rings" "where is Mom" and "don't forget the comfy shoes" are on your mind.. so, it's a little difficult to remember who you assigned to "pack the babies stuff" Then you think, wait, was that job assigned?

Most things are within walking/biking/strolling distance in Key West; but if you have a baby, are wearing a dress and heals.. oh, and lets not forget the jewelry; jewelry and children; two items you can't live without but when together you think -- what was I thinking?!

All of these situations, and many more are possible during a wedding.  Why be worried about these small things; when you could rely on Key West Childcare for a smooth evening; a flawless transition between the reception and the party; and the peace of mind that your kiddos are in excellent hands, allowing you the comfort to enjoy a day you planned perhaps for a year. or maybe even have been dreaming about for a lifetime.

Monday, April 18, 2016

Marathon Monday

You can take the girl out of Boston, but you can't take the Boston out of the girl. Today is Marathon Monday – The Boston Marathon. It's also Patriots Day. Or, if you live in any state other than Massachusetts, Maine, or Wisconsin, it may just be a regular Monday. Unless of course, you have kids! It could be the start of the famous April Vacation.

My family’s April Vacation wasn’t really a vacation at all. Once the snow had melted, we no longer had to get up at the "crack of dawn" to beat the "impending snow storm" and all pack into the family station wagon to head up to the White Mountains of New Hampshire to ski. The April Vacation was time to stay home, spend time with Nana, visit with school friends and, most importantly, go on Mystery Rides.

None of us kids knew when we got in the car where the Mystery Ride might be going but usually it was Boston. We went to The Boston Children's Museum, The Museum of Science, the Boston Public Garden, and for rides on the Swan Boats.  Something  as simple as riding the T (which is what Bostonians call their subway, for those who don't know) was super exciting and scary all at the same time. It was important we all were dressed well, and acted on our best behavior.

My mom was a teacher, so to have her to ourselves for an entire week was really special. My dad was a police officer, and as you might imagine, not a huge fan of Boston and the crowds, but he would make an occasional exception for a trip to Fenway Park or a day at Faneuil Hall Marketplace, especially if he could end up at the North End for dinner.
When we were in Downtown Boston my Nana would tell us how she used to climb the State House steps everyday, and how she went to work at Filene's Department Store against the direction of her husband – all to give her family a good life. In retrospect, I think she just didn't like being told what to do.

What does April Vacation mean to me now? Well clearly it's not a vacation. But it's something I look forward to, I'm blessed to spend time with children in the evening, usually after they have had a full-day of family activity. When I meet families here in Key West my first question is usually, "how was your day," and I love when I hear things like, "we relaxed and spent the day together." The "family-friendly" to-do list is endless here in Key West. But sometimes, just stopping to enjoy one another is what’s most important.

Love is now; and I can't think of anything more precious than seeing life through the eyes of a child.

Have a fabulous week!

Sunday, March 6, 2016

Dear First Time Moms and Dads

I have a confession to make. I just met your child; you know the one that's 18 months (young) .. or perhaps 6 months; or 10 months or 22 months. I just met you child and my confession is: "I know"
Every child is unique and every parent has a special technique.  It's most often true that each child has a special blanket, or toy and most kids have that one food that they will eat if all else fails.  Just about every child cry's when you leave; but I promise you, (at least when it's with me, their is a good chance you might be crying longer) As a suggestion --- long goodbyes, always make it worse, for everyone.
Here's the thing.. I will listen to all the instructions; illnesses; allergies, medications,bedtime, etc.  All of this is important.  Having a phone number to reach you in an emergency; that's important -- Beyond that, we are really going to be great; we are going to be more than great; we are going to be excellent.
You could spend hours in your head thinking of all the possible things that might happen and, I could mention in the 20-years I've been doing this, I've had lot's of interesting situations; and most of my stories are about you -- yes you -- first time parents. Which, by the way, is totally understandable! But, I'm here to tell you now -- because I won't tell you in person; "I know"  I'm going to let you babble on about the special blanket and the hidden snack (but only if I definitely need it) I will also let you show me how to use the IPad, and how to put the special movie on (but only if he won't sleep) I will consult with you about your hair and clothing, because; you left it until the last second and now you can't decide. If you are like most, you have suddenly realized you haven't been without him in months and your not sure you want to even leave.. we will work through that together as well.
Here's what "I know" --  vacation doesn't usually run exactly like home; as much as we try to keep some kind of structure.  "I know" I will do my best to follow the instructions I'm given; but mostly "I know" I will provide a safe and secure place for your first child, and no matter what happens, I am confident I will find a solution.  Lastly "I know" if you can relax just a little bit, your will find Key West to be a great place to go out and have an amazing time.

Thursday, March 3, 2016

March Madness - Key West Style

Let me give you a sneak peak of the great stuff going on in March! Stay tuned for the next post, because this is just a sample! 

March 4 & 18 @ Dusk: Free Movie under the stars at Bayview Park; to follow up- to-date information; go to http://www.kwoutdoormovies.com/

March 5 @ 11am-3pm Key West Pre-School Key West Pre-School Co-op Annual Spring Fair

March 4 & 5 @ 8pm The Jewel Box Review: Celebrity Impersonation and Comedic Performances by Boys in Dresses! Featuring comedy, live vocals, show-stopping production numbers, dazzling costumes, and much more!

March 12 @ 5pm "Picnic Under The Stars"-- a fundraiser presented by Boys & Girls Club, Key West Art & Historical Society, Mote Marine Laboratory, and Womankind.
The family-friendly event welcomes all to bring a blanket and enjoy a picnic-style celebration in the grass-covered citadel grounds of the historic Fort located at 3501 South Roosevelt Boulevard. 
The entry fee is only ten dollars, with children twelve and under free.

March 11 & 12 @ 1pm-4pm Old Town Restoration Foundation House Tours  

March 14 @ 8:30pm Key West Theater present Julia Murney singing "Broadway" hits!  

March 19 @ 5:30pm-8pm Equality Florida Key West Gala - The Gardens Hotels; 526 Angela Street to RSVP; go to; http://www.eqfl.org/keywestgala

March 1-26 "The Producers" @ 8pm The Waterfront Playhouse

We look forward to your arrival! 









Monday, February 29, 2016

Monday? Already?

Here in Key West it's literally impossible to take advantage of all we have to offer during your stay -- people often ask me why I still live here and my honest answer is; I still have so many things I haven't done yet.  We may be a small place; but the opportunities here are endless and they are always changing and expanding. 

This weekend; Theme Runs kicked off Saturday morning with a FINtastic 5K run/walk to benefit Gerald Adams Elementary School.  Participates were splashed with colors from the sea and; adults and children clearly had a wonderful time.  The 51st Annual Old Island Day Festival was a 2-day event filled with local artists; street performers; and food vendors.  Night life over the weekend included choices such as; a stunning performance by Lyle Lovett and Vince Gil at The Tennessee Williams Theater.  Meanwhile, just across town, Nick Cearley, had audiences laughing in the hit production "Buyer and Seller" at the Red Barn Theater

On Sunday, a fabulous musical performance was put on my the BadkeQuartet; at St Paul's Episcopal Church; or if you prefer something more upbeat; La Te Da has a standing Tea Dance where you will find a fun crowd dancing and possibly even singing; enjoying the afternoon breeze.

I know you could be thinking.. but that all happened this weekend; I missed it! Trust me, if I told you all the things I missed this weekend, you would stop reading; because, let's be honest, who's attention span is really that long anyway?

Next up...  great stuff to look forward to in March! You know..when you are actually going to come and visit!

PS: If you prefer to just sit at the beach, or by the pool, I totally get it! We have plenty of that here too! And, I'd love to watch the kids while you relax.

Thursday, February 25, 2016

Stopped dreaming, Started Doing

I'm a planner.  I'm terrible at making decisions.  I can be a perfectionist to a paralyzing extent.

The only things in life I recall doing "without a plan" include the real big decisions in life; the ones that were super hard to make, that I just had to close my eyes and jump in -- a few examples include transferring to Arizona State University 3,000 miles away from home, another example is when I bought a brand new car right after I graduated from Curry College; no cash down, 5-year loan. The third example that comes to mind, is moving here, to The Florida Keys, unemployed, without a solid housing plan, basically because my life was in turmoil and it seemed so crazy; I thought, it just might actually work!

Key West Childcare was a dream; for it to become reality I had to start doing and stop dreaming. This meant closing my eyes, and jumping in. Planning, decisions, perfectionism... all of that out the window.  Push through the fear and take the actions; understand I will make mistakes, I might be wrong and things are probably not going to go the way I'd like them; and most importantly, other peoples intentions are almost always good.